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  • Is it wrong to ask one of my bridesmaids to cut her hair if I’m paying to get their hair done?

    I have 3 bridesmaids, they’re my 2 sisters and my fiance’s younger sister Jess. My sisters have hair that reaches their bra strap. Jess on the other hand has incredibly long hair, I believe it’s mid thigh. I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s near her knees as it’s been a while since I have seen her hair down. It’s very well kept hair, it’s very soft and very shiny. I want my bridesmaids to look similar. I wanted them to have their hair down and curled but Jess’ hair is far too long to do that with. Is it wrong to ask Jess to a couple of inches off her hair? In the UK the bride and groom pay for dress, hair, shoes, etc. I know when Jess got married, she asked me to not dye my hair a bright colour before her wedding as she didn’t want me to stand out in the pictures. Is this not the same thing? I haven’t asked her yet, my fiancé thinks I shouldn’t ask her at all and just do something else with my bridesmaids’ hair.
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  • Why are people so obsessed with getting married so quickly after getting engaged?

    My fiance & I have been together 6 yrs (engaged for 4) although we're engaged we're in no rush to race down the alter when we're happy just being engaged as of right now. There's no time limit on being engaged and marrying so why do people obsess with a short engagement by getting married quickly? (By short I mean 1 year after getting engaged) Why do people (especially on here) think a long engagement means not ever planning to marry when it doesn't mean that AT ALL?
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  • How important is an engagement ring?

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  • Is it me or my friend is getting out hand with her wedding?

    My best friend is getting married.im one of her bridesmaids. I know she is excited and I want her to be happy but I feel that she is asking for too much. I'm spending 200 dress, 200 in makeup and hair, 50 in shoes and jerwerly and I'm planning her bridal shower which might be an extra 300. She is getting married on a Friday so I requested that day off. She is doing her bachelorette in a fancy hotel 2 weeks before her wedding and also a Friday. We have to pay 300 for one night. I wanted to make her happy so agreed . Check in is a 3:00pm and since I work until 3:30 I decided to take only a half day off because I am already taking a Friday off for her wedding. She asked 2 weeks ago if i was taking the day off for her bachelorette and I said that I will be taking a half day and I will be meeting her there. Well she sent a message saying that she schedule an SPA appointment for all of us at 1pm. Again check in is at 3pm . I told her that I will be getting out at 12 and since it is 1hr30 mins away I will be late. She got upset saying that I had enough time to take the day off that I told her I will be taking the day of the bachelorette off. I remind her that I did told her it was a half day and she replies saying that she wanted all the bridesmaid to leave all together because it was going to be "really fun". She said it was not cool of me to do that. Please be honest , am I being difficult? I want to make her happy but I can't be risking my job either. Should I take the day off?
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  • What happens with wedding pic's when brides parents are divorced?

    When they ask for a pic of the couples parents on each side, what happens if there's a divorce? Dad remarried. The mother, stepmother and father on one side? Or just mom and dad even tho divorced?
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  • My Friend doesn’t want her partners daughter to be a bridesmaid, what can she do/say?

    Best answer: Ahh, thank you for the good laugh. A four year old toddler CANNOT be a bridesmaid.

    Whatever the toddler's title or role, if the bride choses to have her as a bridal attendant, being an unruly child is the real issue here.

    I would not have a little spoiled brat in my wedding party, regardless of her title.

    However, it seems that the problem at hand in your question is not about if the child should be allowed to participate in the bridal party's activities the day of the wedding but rather what title the little brat is awarded. Tell your friend to call the kid a flower girl, but let the pushy Grandma call her a bridesmaid. Because, at the end of the day, that little kid will not fool anyone into thinking she is a brides maid because she is, in fact a flower girl all day long.
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  • Does it matter how much an engagement ring costs?

    I'm gonna do the fake thing. I look at is as a test...if she gets it appraised? I don't want her to marry me anyway
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  • If I have to miss a wedding cause my grandfather is dying would the wedding group understand?

    Best answer: If you RSVP yes, you need to tell the bride and groom asap.

    We could changed the count up until three days before hand.
    Depending on the venue, they might be able take you off the account.

    You need to let the couple go.

    Not showing up, is rude, unless something happens the day of the wedding.
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  • What does our Lord Jesus Christ say upon those that want to separate a spouse from her husband?

    Best answer: Those parents will go to hell since they are trying to break a covenant (Rom 1:31-32). They don't even have to be successful.

    As Jesus put it, "So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate" (Mt 19:6). She and her husband need to get away from her parents.
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  • Are 8 months of dating long enough to start talking about getting engaged?

    Best answer: Only if you have spent those eight months talking about your future lives, about your dreams, expectations and plans, and if you know enough about each other to know that your morals, values, and ethics are a good match.

    Talking about "getting engaged" is ridiculous unless both of you are ready for total commitment to a future together.
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  • What are the most popular songs played at weddings?

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  • If a company goes bankrupt but still in business will they still fullfill their orders that have been paid for?

    I paid almost $2000 to order my daughter's wedding dress from David''s bridal. It should be here in a month. I just heard they are going thru bankruptcy. Should I be worried?
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  • Any tips for an outdoor wedding?

    Planning my wedding for August 2019, does anyone have any tips or ideas? Not asking for anything in particular just thought maybe someone would think of something I have over looked or have an idea thats better than what I already have. All would be appreciated.
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  • Should the mother of the bride wear a dress that matches the wedding party?

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  • How common is it for a man to wear a wedding ring?

    Best answer: Very common where I live. I have been wearing one for over 54 years.
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  • What is a good gift for your daughter's wedding?

    I wanted to get her something thats sentimental and nice.
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  • Can the groom escort the bride during the wedding march?

    My fiance and I are getting married in May. It is going to be a very simple wedding. There is only going to be a a flower girl, and a matron of honor and a best man. My father passed away two years ago, so there is no one to "give me away" (and I hate that term anyway). I know typically the groom waits at the altar and the bride's maids are escorted by the groomsmen, and finally the father of the bride escorts the bride to the alar. I know I could have a brother or an uncle escort me down the aisle, but what about having my finace--the groom--do the wedding march with me instead of waiting at the altar? My fiance said he would crawl over glass to get our last names the same if that's what I wanted. But I've never known it to be done.
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  • Why is such a big deal about women and men HAVING to wear their engagement rings?

    Seriously why is it a big deal? My fiance & I have been together 6 yrs (engaged for 4) and although we're engaged we both mutually agreed that we didn't have to wear our rings since neither of us are jewelry wearing types (the rings were only like $20 each so it's not like their expensive) Why do people make such a fuss about it? It's not like your no longer engaged if ya don't wear a ring 🙄
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  • If you want to buy a wedding ring OR Engagement ring, which way is best?

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  • I won't get their wedding gift finished in time. I need something to give at the wedding. Help!?

    I am making a quilt for my best friend's wedding. It's a double wedding band and it's kind of a difficult pattern to quilt. There is no way I can get it done by March 16. So I need to come up with another gift for their wedding. I want the quilt to be a surprise so I don't want to say your real gift is coming. I also don't want to get her something so chintzy that she'll be disappointed. He's really religious so I was thinking maybe a Family Bible. But idk. I want to keep it under $40 if I can! HELP!
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